...when you’re on a rumbling train, trying to get ready, and the conductor shoves your validated ticket back at you. I don’t think he really liked me... It all started when I had just got on the train early, early that morning. There were already two people asleep in the compartment, but I was in no way ready for bed. I was definitely tired, don’t get me wrong, but I just didn’t have the sheets laid out and the pillow covered yet. Anyway, I was doing that with the door slightly open, since the two people had filled up that small gap between couchettes with their huge bags already, when the conductor rolls by and commands me to close the door and lock it. I respectfully oblige, motion an apology, and try to prep for bed in the dark, half crouched over. Finally ready, I crawl into bed and try to fall asleep and then stay asleep. When I wake up, I go about my business while trying to keep the door closed for the other, still-sleeping passenger. Little did I know that, by doing this and staying in the walkway (there were pull-down seats for people like me in that kind of situation), I was getting in the conductor’s way. Apparently, this was the time of morning that is when he goes about starting to clean out the compartments of the linen. So, he definitely didn’t like having to inch by me (and other people too!) with stacks of used bed sheets. Such is life...
...when you get to the train station, call the hostel, and receive no answer. Well, I wasn’t surprised at the time, since it was still very early. I got a cappuccino from a just-open café and waited for the tourist info office to open. After getting the info on local sites I wanted to see, I tried calling again. No answer, so I decided that I’d just walk to the address listed on hostelworld. Well, after walking all the way there, with all my stuff, I found just a regular apartment building. I asked the bike shop next door, and no one had ever heard of Hometown Apartments. Wtf?!? So, I walk back to the tourist office, hoping that they have another place that they can recommend and help me book. The really helpful woman there looked up this place I had booked online - same info (address and phone number) that I had - and gave them another call. No luck from her end either, so I asked for a hostel and was given directions to it. On the way to that hostel, I passed by the train station again, so the cheapskate in me wanted to try calling on more time. Success!! Apparently, the guy’s father (must be a family business?) was told that I was a guy, so he couldn’t find me at the train station in the morning. Must be the traveling alone thing? Anyway, I find out that he will meet me at the train station and then drive me to the apartment. He arrives minutes later in this beat-up looking Corolla wagon (sketchy) and then drives me past where I originally had walked to (double sketchy). It turns out that they rent out a different apartment from the address they advertise. Maybe the address is their own address and only used for business purposes? I’m not sure. In any case, I get there with only half an hour before the bus I was going to take leaves, so the father kindly offers to drive me to the bus station, which would have been almost a half hour walk. Such is life...
...when you get there and settle in just to head out of town again. I get to the bus station, and the guy helps me get on the right bus. Luckily, the stop is the very last one, so I don’t have to worry about missing it. Even before I get to that last stop, I can see my destination off in the distance: Pannanholma Abbey. This abbey was constructed in the early life of Hungary, about a century into the country’s existence. It’s still pretty much in operation today, so I really wanted to check it out. Györ is supposed to be one of the early centers of the Christian religion in Central/Eastern Europe, and this famous hill was the center of it for centuries in northern Hungary. I joined the next English language tour, which is the only way to see the still-operating abbey, and it was definitely interesting. Our tour guide showed us a video on the life of a Benedictine monk at this abbey, one of hours of prayer, hours of study (tons of reading), and teaching at one of the two boarding schools that the abbey operates in the region. We saw the typical stuff, including the church and the cloisters. She pointed out the three layers of walls of the church, the innermost one was just recently discovered and has large murals on it. Unfortunately, the second layer of wall is the structural support, so they couldn’t really remove it to uncover the original church walls. The best part of the tour though, for me at least, was the library. Benedictine monks are very focused on their study, believing (at least this is my understanding of it) that through knowledge and the truth, they can find God. In a way, very similar to the way scientists think of things, except without the faith in the unseen thing, I suppose. So, you wouldn’t be surprised to learn that their library was gigantic. It was filled up to the ceiling (a very tall ceiling) with books from the time of the abbey’s construction to present day. It’s also open to the public, although only researchers are allowed to look at the older books. They had a special exhibit at the time on Bibles, and they had many of them, from various points of time and from various countries in their respective languages. It was thoroughly fascinating, and I spent most of the time just basking in the existence of such old and well-kept books. The other people on the tour were also enjoying it, but they were spending a bit more time admiring the lavish decorations in the library and the statues and paintings. I found it interesting that they gave equal representation (almost) to the scholars of classic Greece and the saints of Eastern Europe. Our tour ended with a stroll through a temporary exhibit on olden day icons versus modern day religious art. More than a bit disappointing after the amazing library though. Such is life...
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| This is where the library is... |
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| I'd love to have a home library like this! |
...when there are 5+ hours between when the bus drops you off and the next bus even comes there to return you to town. The exhibit could only last so long, so I wandered around the area to look at other things. Centuries of monks had built up a quite impressive botanical garden for studying plants and medicines, so I walked around there for a brief time. There was supposed to be a winery, where the monks have been making wine since the early centuries of the abbey’s existence, but it looked closed. It’s too bad; I would have liked to try some of their wine. I wandered even further, to a millennial monument, built for Hungary’s millennial birthday. It had vast murals inside, which were unfinished because the artist died in the midst of it. Of the several of such monuments in Hungary built for its 1000th birthday, only two including this one remains to the day. After that, I wandered on to another chapel up on the hill - also closed - and then to the glass museum. It was interesting for about 20 minutes, so I still had almost an hour of waiting before the bus came. Such is life...
...when there are tons of teenage couples making out along the banks of the Raba River. Sorry to the Rabas that I know, but this is indeed true. Being on lovers’ lane there didn’t really encourage me to keep walking, and I have to admit that the rivers weren’t that impressive. Yes, they have three of them meeting in the city, but they’re not vast rivers and the bridges across them all seem a bit precarious to walk across. So, I didn’t wander over past the other side of the river too much, but there’s supposed to be a water park there, Raba Quelle is the name. I guess the Hungarians like their water parks and bathhouses. With summers hot and humid as these, I can’t say I blame them. Such is life...
...when you point to items on a menu and the restaurant still gets it wrong. I headed to a seafood restaurant and bar that was recommended by one of the guidebooks, and overall I was satisfied with the food. But that’s a lot different from being happy with the food. I ordered from the English menu, which was merely a translation of only half the Hungarian menu, so I actually ended up looking at the German menu as well to fill in the gaps. I indicated, with a pointing finger, which items I wanted and promptly received my salad, peas and corn in some mayonnaise is what I could make of it. It wasn’t horrible, but I didn’t finish. I was very surprised though when fried catfish arrived at my table instead of the paprika Nile bass that I had pointed to. It was still good, but, if I wanted fried catfish, I would have gone to Cajun country. Fried catfish was the item underneath the one I really wanted, so maybe the waiter thought I was pointing by covering up the item I wanted. I’m not quite sure how that would be in any way logical, but, then again, maybe it’s a cultural thing. Such is life...
Day 8
...when you sleep in because you have a flat all to yourself so there’s no one else to wake you up. What can I say? It was nice, and I didn’t have much sleep on the train the day before. Such is life...
...when you can visit a whole list of religious relics and sacred places within a 5 minutes’ walk of each other. Like I’d mentioned, Györ was, and maybe still is, a religious center for the region. I visited the Carmelite temple and then the basilica, seat of the archbishop of Györ and home to one of Hungary’s most sacred relics - the skull and some bones of St. Ladislaus. Also there was the tomb of Bishop Vilmus Ador, who was shot by the Russians in the aftermath of WWII while defending women and children who were taking refuge in the bishop’s residence. This church also contained the portrait of the Weeping Blessed Virgin, a painting that was brought from Ireland by an Irish missionary and supposedly shed tears of blood on St. Patrick’s Day several decades later. After not being able to figure out where to go for tours of the Bishop’s Palace, I headed to the Diocesian Treasury and Library. Once again, there were centuries of religious articles, from chalices to monstrances, from bishop’s robes to aging texts, the latter of all those being the most interesting. I’m not that into gold. Such is life...
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| The relic of St. Ladislaus |
...when I have to be the one to get a hold of the managers of the hostel in order to pay and check out. I would say that this makes it triple sketchy by now. After texting the manager and not receiving a timely response, I call the father, who had luckily and sensibly given me his number. I hope that international roaming doesn’t cost too much, since there were no payphones near the apartment. Anyway, he’s apparently only on bike so agrees to meet me at the train station instead of the apartment. A return trip from the apartment to the train situation is also not included in the stay, as I was later informed by a return text from the manager - one that I received as I was already halfway across town anyway. All I can say is at least the father is nice. I think that the son just hides behind the niceties of his father to cover up his horrible business sense. Such is life in Györ - I was glad I was moving on to Budapest.











